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Enter your mobile number or email address below and we'll send you a link to download the free Kindle App. Then you can start reading Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet, or computer - no Kindle device required. To get the free app, enter your mobile phone number. Would you like to tell us about a lower price? If you are a seller for this product, would you like to suggest ates through seller support? It may seem shocking to compare our relationship with God with the notion of "dating. With fresh insight and a deep personal spirituality, Horan points out that the desire, uncertainty, and love we experience in relationship with God resembles our earthly relationships: We set aside time for the people who are most important to us.
I am a Millennial Franciscan. I share this because this is my starting point. This is, in part, who I am. I have devoted a lot of my writing to living as a spiritual person today striving toward a deeper relationship with God.
Some of you might be wondering: What does a Franciscan friar know about dating? A fair question. Enough to know the ins and outs of dating and relationships-the high of first falling in love and the low of falling out of love. I know what it is like to break a heart and I have also experienced the pain of heartbreak.
I know what the in-between time is like-the fun, bliss, and joy of the early stages and planning as well as the jealousy, fights, and misunderstandings that usually mark the end.
For the sake of my past loves I have been extraordinarily careful to protect their identities here. The lessons I have learned from these varied experiences help shape my own understanding of what it means to give, communicate, and love. God is not our boyfriend or girlfriend, nor is God our spouse.
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It is my hope that we do not subject the image of dating to a similar misrepresentation. Dating is a way of doing or being. Click here for more of Father Dan's writing. If you take the romantic connotations away from the term datingthen you are left with a word that can be applied to any experience of getting to know another. Think of your best friend. If your experience is like mine, then when you first meet someone who is bound to be a close friend, you are initially very interested in that person.
Perhaps you talk on the phone late into the night or text each other a hundred times a day, ating your new friend on all the useless trivia of your day-to-day life. You might find yourself interested in new things-sports, foods, activities, hobbies-that you never tried before.
Maybe you stop eating meat because your friend is a vegetarian. Maybe you start going to church because your friend finds it important.
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Verified Purchase. As a leadership consultant I found this book to be immensely rewarding to read. As we are seeing world wide, there is a shift in leadership relationships.
For far too long we have looked at leaders as good parents-which has resulted in an unhealthy dependency on the part of followers. In addition, when the good parent does not "protect" us from the umarionfoaleyarn.comedictability of life, we grow angry and often denigrate that same person we had previously admired. This book helps to articulate a relationship with God that is truly one where we bring our true and adult self into relationship with God.
Through this book we begin to see a relationship with God in which our voice is important. God does not only command us to be- he also lovingly listens to us as we search for the fullest expression of our true self in relationship with others. I am thankful for this book on many levels, but most importantly this book provides a beautiful description of a rich, mutually respectful, mutually loving relationship with God.
One that is becoming more necessary as the world begins to recognize the interdependency of each person and each country throughout the world. Well said and with a conversational style, Fr. Dan knows how to get to the heart of the matter.
I pick up this book often, just to read his words as the message is directed to me, due to his gift for saying it all so well. Thank you! It was amazing! So down to earth. One person found this helpful. Beautiful writing. A fascinating way to approach God.
I recommend it. This book is great for anyone looking to bring new life into their relationship with God. While the metaphor of "dating" God would seem strange at first, Horan connects all the dots and gives us a great way to understand our relationship with God.
I especially enjoyed all the stories from the lives of Franciscan saints and stories from the author's own life. Horan weaves these stories together seamlessly, creating a cohesive and easy read for all to enjoy.
As a Campus Minister at a Franciscan University, I look forward to sharing this book with my students and helping them understand their own relationship with God and with others.
The book is valuable for conversation groups because of the reflection questions and prayers that are contained within. The author gives current examples - making the point very real. Daniel Horan is an articulate and engaging writer and writes with thought provoking depth. See all reviews from the United States. Top international reviews. How novel!
Jun 18, Dating God: A young friar's experience of solitude "Go to your room!" It is no wonder that solitude is a scary experience when, from one's earliest years, time . " Dating God explores how to maintain a loving, lifelong relationship with God, other human beings, and all creatures - a relationship that begins with taking the time to go on a date with God." (Murray Bodo, O.F.M., author of Francis: The Journey and the Dream). God as like a friend. Still others, including Jesus of Nazareth, speak of God as a father or a mother. Just as each of these images-lover, friend, and parent-does not exhaust the richness of God's ability to relate to us in ever increasingly personal ways, to think of God in terms of dating will also inevitably fall short of perfection.
A monk writing about dating! God is often presented as a parent but this metaphor isn't easy for some people so it is refreshing to read how the modern analogy of 'dating' can be used to explain a human-being's relationship with God.
The books highlights how relationships can cause us to desire transformation within ourselves - thoughts, words and our actions - and a relationship with God is no exception. There were plenty of anecdotes from modern life to support the teachings of St.
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Francis and others who chose to live simply and in comradeship with others as an expression of God's love for them. I have highlighted so many sentences and paragraphs so that I can flick through and re-read the sections that helped me the most.
I love the 'key points' and questions at the end of each chapter. They were a lovely surprise! Thank you for your feedback. Sorry, we failed to record your vote.
Please try again. I do recommend this book to quite a variety of people - first, there aren't many books about Franciscan spirituality around that talk to a younger audience who is not already well versed in matters of spirituality or church in general. And it's still good for those who are - many thoughts I've had before or read about in other contexts came up in this book and gave my a new perspective on St Francis. The book asks good questions at the end of each chapteris non-patronising a rare gift, it seems sometimes and enjoyable to read.
So, it's great for anyone with a general interest in spirituality and St Francis, just as much as it is a very good read for all those who are exploring Franciscan spirituality with more depth and possibly in the context of discerning their vocation.
Thanks for the book, Dan Horan Excellent read.
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Jan 03, "The idea of 'dating God' may be a little jarring at first, but in Brother Dan Horan's hands it becomes an inspired way to find and channel our longing for God. He has done a remarkable job of bringing the wisdom of St. Francis into the Facebook age."/5(34). Dating God: Live and Love in the Way of St. Francis - Kindle edition by Horan, Daniel. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. Use features like bookmarks, note taking and highlighting while reading Dating God: Live and Love in the Way of St. Francis/5(37). The first and greatest commandment in Christian dating - for you and your significant other - is the same as in all of life: "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength" (Mark ).
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