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I have seen lots of woman who love men older than they are. When you are adults age makes no difference unless your goals in life are different, IE if you want kids and he doesn't. Just things to think about but congratulations are in order for you. Good luck and keep the faith. The man that I am in love with is 22 years older than me. I am 28 and he is
Wow I am 22 years old will turn 23 next month I met a 49year old man when I was 20 about to turn I never considered the thought of being in a relationship with an older man his age. It was great. We just had a lot of problems he has a temper problem and I couldn't take it because he would get so explosive.
We broke up January this year I still love him so much and we still talk and have been seeing each other.
27 year old man dating 45 year old woman
He says he loves me a lot but wishes I could've given in more in The ralationship. I am so confused I don't want stop talking to him is atop seeing him I cannot imagine my self without ever having any communication with him again.
For that nature of happiness which comes only ever with emotional stability, make it realistic, make it lasting, make it friendship, genuine unconditional friendship. When we met i was 25 he was I am now From the beginning there was this connection that still is there. He makes me happy in every sense possible. He genuinely feels the same as we openly talk. We both still dont know what to make of it as it seems surreal that we cld both be experiencing the same feelings.
As we crossed the first stepping stone of realizing we have the same feelings feelings. Ive Learned lifes to short to be unhappy. And from my biggest supporter. That has to be the most sweetest words I heard today. Being in love with someone does not matter what age you are. If you are in love and feel that good for you both. Because I am a 32 year old woman in love with a 56year old man and I want to marry him because he takes care of me and I am going to take care of him also.
So I feel you too. If people don't like it I really don't care. Im 27 the father of my 2 sons is 45' iv excepted his age but every time I go around my uncle he makes jokes and try to make him seem older than what he is and it hurts but I love my children father he treats me like a queen. If any thing happen to me hes there not my uncle. At first he was just my friend after having dissapointment out of the men that are my age I started lookin at him differently.
Now it have been 5 yrs and every day I love him more and stronger. He dont have a mom or dad either they both passed when he was young. So in the end I think thats what make our bond stronger, I love him and thats what matter. He dont have a mom or daf either they bith passed when he was young. I think at 26 your ok because your an adult.
You should have some sort of idea the direction your life is going in at 26 remember we graduate college at 22 or 23 so 26 is fine. My problem was that I was 28 and my girl was 21 and we were in 2 different universes. But she had a 2 year old when I met her so I figured she must be mature. So age is just a number. But not certain.
Ages I was a college grad who was taking over a family pharmacy and she was a young mom who could finally be allowed into a bar. Now she's in the process of going away and I have 2 gifts from God. Even though I should have run for the hills I'm glad I didn't because I now have the boys. I'd crawl through razor wire naked just to see their faces for one second.
What is wrong with all u young women today? Is this the "no daddy syndrome? His balls r hanging down to his knee caps at that age! These old men r afraid of getting old, they prey on the young to compensate for there insecurities Sorry to me u r all just repulsive I looove him. With what I said do i? Or am. I just depressed? Perhaps crazy Or honest. We alll die.
But freaking crap I didnt want at allll to die that much earlier than my husband. Grow old together, not watch you grow hecka old slowly die while I slowly watch and grow a hurt back to now deal with alone and poor due to medication s and medical bills and funeral.
I wanted to be. Ive seen sooo many mourn the death of spousesand. I think being in the medical field had really really jaded me and I hope distorted my view. And this all crazy talk but. Not to mention honestly are you as fast as you were when you were 20s as in 60? Orrrrr 70s vers 30? Noooo the gap and body progression is real and when you hit 42 you age 6 months quicker every x amount.
I was a cna geriatrics and am concerned of our future to where he married his future caretaker and ill be left screwed. You already had your 20s why take another s cause when you 70 and theyre 55 thats a huge difference in those years especially.
He could have found. Now im. With watching him. The pain is soooo real. And ask allllll the time why. And I ask why 15 years. Didnt spell.
I love my husband and he adores me. Not wanting to travel or go to functions is a problem in personality differences than age. You two may have been a bad fit but I think the age difference may have been a red herring here. Enjoying life is can occur are any age. A good indicator might be to meet the parents. Genetics plays a big role and the lifestyle they live.
I'm 24 Dating a 46 Year Old Man! (Being With An Older Man) - NaturallyNellzy
The advice I would give women dating older men is to make sure they stay fit, that makes a very big difference. Watch out for these red flags instead, his diet, is he fit, his parents looks is a great indicator, does he exercise, how much does he care about his looks and that applies to any age you date.
She wants to be treated like a child. She wants to be immature. I can take care of myself financially for now and if we stay together longer I imagine us having a similar dynamic as any younger couple where we work together not just me living off of him.
Awesome words you write. We have been dating for 7 weeks. I separated 20 months ago from my wife of 23 years.
I never imagined being with a woman 17 years my junior. Not that it was out of the question, it just never entered my mind that I would be with a woman much younger than myself. We enjoy each other very much. Moreso me than her at the moment I Love her and want to spend what time I have left in this life soley with her. We have Many things in common, one of which, would be Very difficult to replicate.
I have asked her if she has seen anyone else since we met and she told me no. That is reassuring, but I am very paranoid that she may toss me to the curb for another, possibly, younger guy. This inspires me. I met him when I was 21 and he was So reading through most of the replies kind of makes me sad of course. We have so much in common and we have so much fun together. But I love the life I share with him.
Reading through the comments makes me sad again when I think about surein 20 years I will be 43 and he will be Good luck to you and your man.
If both of you are clear about the most likely temporary nature of your relationship more power to you. Most relationships with a large age gap, whether the man or woman is older, tend not to last. Eventually that age difference starts to matter. No one is immune to time. We get slower and less healthy. Things may be all fun and laughs now but when you turn 33 and start to think about the fact that he is 60 you may feel very differently about the relationship.
At that point you may decide an attractive and vibrant 40 year old better suits your lifestyle, but your current man may not want to let you go. Thank you very much. Thanks again. My relationship with kind of been bumy. This comment really bothers me. As if men can only agree or see relevance when their age group or kind is the exact type of men referenced. They are willing to throw away long loving relationships with women for a night of lust.
Men this age will chest and justify it like no other age group. Risking family life and hurting his partner. You have to beg these men to get std test because they act as if their fragile little ego is so offended by something they should do anyway.
They have never dealt with adversity. The slightest hardship will result in a nervous breakdown and the woman will be stuck babying them back to their male privilege health. They are fake cultured. They travel the globe and take Snapchat but know nothing of the culture or people that they visit other than to sound pseudo cultured. They think experimenting with drugs is a romantic activity.
No matter what socioeconomic class. Older men are men. They are decisive. They know how to open doors, let a woman relax, be sensitive when needed and string where it counts. Millennial men are ridiculous and also now highly feminized. I will pass! Material issues.
Faster, easier, sex. I think you have a great point. But I have to add older men are better in bed too.
Jul 26, My most meaningful relationship was at 27 with a 44 year old women. It's actually really, really fulfilling if you accept the issues. She was more open and honest than girls my age, she was . What do you say about the reverse? I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman - physically that is, but why would a year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? . I'm a 21 year old female and I've been dating a 33 year old man and living togather for about years. And he doesn't have kids neither of us and just recently we been a part 3 weeks in different states and .
I was 23 and my ex was 36and yes he robbed the cruddle. He wanted to mold me to what he wantedthe only trouble there is, I did grow up. As for daddy issues. My dad was never around at my young age. I seriously had more fun with my ex. And the young shall grow.
Write back when he is That made me roll my eyes a bit. Honestly, why go out with a much older man if you still have to work hard to please him! Surely the pay off of going out with a much older man is that he is working very hard to please you!! So a 13 year age gap is a daddy issue? He was still in your age range!
Alot of men dont even have wives or kids yet at that age or are just settling down He cant even be your daddy cause hes 12 or 13 yrs older than you. On another note most ppl over 45 shouldnt show much of an age difference so make that over Your spouse is still a young adult now so no need to worry about that now. Youre both adults I think its a a little immature for a man over 28 to date a girl under 24 but its nothing that bad hes barely over 35 I know alot of immature guys in their late 20s and 30s that only date and hang around ppl in thier early 20s.
On the latter one of older seeking younger ad 6. And whose doing is that? And yes you can appreciate your dad. Even if it starts out that way, the youngin will grow and realize the folly of youth. Better make sure she has no financial assets to take care of herself. If you are very rich, she will still leave you and collect alimony. People can find others their own age to appreciate. Unless you are a movie star or famous person, keep dreaming.
Appreciation is not a reason to get married. We both care for each other,and we never talk about our age we just live life one day at a time. Does she have the opportunity to become everything she possibly can be in life while in a relationship with you? I am 31 and my guy is 48, I am a nurse and he is a CEO of a company.
When we first met I never asked how much he made or cared. I felt drawn to him and he was so funny and fun. The first night we met I ended up taking care of him because he had got really sick.
He was really embarrassed, the following weekend we met up at a 4 day concert event where our love story began. I usually get along better with people that are older due to my views and values in life. He is better in bed than ANY guy I have ever been with and he loves so passionately. He is kind, sensitive, smart, caring, and fun!
I appreciate this man and love him with all of my heart. I simply feel a deep connection to him and I know he feels the same way. We connect on an emotional level, a physical level, and a mental level. In life that is almost near impossible to find and there are people out there who never get to experience that with someone else. I was lucky enough to find that someone for me. How well two people work together and understand one another. How that person brings out the best in you and wants the best for you.
I could have a guy from many age groups.
I am a 42 year old man dating a 25 year old woman. Never bee..
I go by what is right for me and for my guy. We have ups and downs like anyone else. That is normal. We grow and learn along the way. Life is so short and we are not promised tomorrow. Others may and have that right to their own opinions. Thanks for the interesting read. Now we are both retired and we are closer than ever. My own dad was affectionate with his 3 daughters but it was clear that my mom was his girl. That is what I got. My ex left me for a 22 year md singer and dancer.
He was I was shocked that he he married her. She had nothing to give him.
She took my home belongings, had an Invitro baby. I never had closure. May she have the dump of her life. Why are you mad at her and not him? The sense of entitlement this woman displayed was truly unbelievable. But noooo. The Other Woman to whom he could have lied to get her into bed is at fault.
Ladies, sure get mad at the woman, too. The other woman is irrelevant to your anger. If this simple logic is not something you gals can get your arms around, no wonder there is so much dysfunction once a woman gets into a relationship. Karmic: WOW is right. When did I ever say otherwise? Frankly, I blame both of them for their actions. Two people made a choice to betray their spouses and destroy two families. Now both have paid the price for that choice. She is now a single mother with no support and he wants to come home to me but that door is permanently closed.
Those are some pretty snide assumptions you are making there, especially considering that I never said anything you could base those on in my comment. She knew me and our young children. Our kids played together for crying out loud. She is a Narcissistic Gold Digger so, no, she was not some innocent victim that my husband lied to. I like your posts. Most women on this board vilify uncommitted men commitment phobes, man-children, narcissists, etc.
The anger seems so disproportionate to the offender. So you took it upon yourself to inform us of how very deluded we all are without any background information. I could pluck all kinds of things out of the ether and sound off on you for neglecting to mention them. Now see how silly that sounds?
Ditto for the rest of us. If you actually care how we feel about something just ask before you criticize, unless criticizing is really all you wanted to do in the first place. Please show me where I said that all men must commit to a woman. Forgive me for not expounding upon the topic to your satisfaction. Only to vilify the other woman, when the MAN - who was in the relationship with you - should be one vilified.
All three of you only mentioned all the details after I challenged what was written. Oh, I vilified him in spades. Was I under some obligation to tell you every tiny detail right off the bat? Do you get to dictate what we share publicly and when? I took out the majority though admitted not all of my anger on HIM. There is no emotional investment in the woman. She is not someone the wife has a deep attachment to, therefore, it is easier to forgive the guy and blame the outside enemy.
Not condoning it, just considering why it might happen. You felt the relevant details was to name call the woman.
Wow I am 22 years old will turn 23 next month I met a 49year old man when I was 20 about to turn I never considered the thought of being in a relationship with an older man his age. But we started a . Jun 20, I was 26 when I married my husband, who was We've now been married 12 years. So I feel like I have some authority to answer this. There are good things and bad things about it. I love . In other words, while the rule states that year-old women can feel comfortable dating year-old men, this does not reflect the social preferences and standards of women.
I would have commented differently had you and Stephan and Sharon wrote with as much anger towards the man as towards the woman. Duh we can drop this now, right? Have fun. Mine left me for a younger woman as well, after putting us all through total hell for two decades with his drug addiction.
That puts a whole different spin on things. A man in his 40s or 50s is likely either married or divorced. Dude goes through a mid life crisis, leaves wife and kids for a younger POA who makes him feel all youthful again.
He used to say he enjoys my company and he admires my outlook towards life as both of us were very different.
Postdoc, I do too and I am also able to sustain friendships with older people than with people my age. I got married to someone 13 years elder to me, In the sense i sought something in him, i couldn't find it anywhere, even there after when it broke off because of so many issues, i tend to fall for someone elder again, and again.
I wouldn't precisely use the word "falling", rather i would say i felt emotionally bonded, easily understood by them. Now i am with someone younger. I really don't know what is missing. PostDoc, if it happened often then you were actually consciously choosing to be with older men. When you date someone older and then you go back to date someone young like your age ofcourse you will have to feel a huge difference, maturity, experience and also emotional bonding. I would suggest that you work with what you feel comfortable with, and also consider your needs, its not possible to get the best of both worlds young and old.
Per my experience, there are advantages of being with either of them and this depends on how you feel. Some older men are more affectionate, understanding and you feel secure with them and its not always about their 'ego'.
Young men, well I can say its a whole different world, I remember when I was with one man who was 32years and we had a fight over listening to reggae music in his car.
He had played loud music for hours and I remember telling him I would not mind some quiet time. It resulted in a fight and him calling his sister to report me he said 'I cannot listen to music in my own car' and explained to his sister the current situation and how I am stopping him from enjoying reggae music. Many of us get into relationships with people who subconsciously remind us of our parents and our desire is to put right in our partners, what was wrong with our parents.
Johnny Nicks's recent blog posts: How to know when to give up on things? Feeling Vulnerable and Stressed? I think they never reminded me of my parents. PostDOC, same thing, the man was not anything closer to my father or even reminded me of him, he was warm, available, talkative too, listened and would sometimes pull abit of humour, my father was and is alittle cold and distant, unavailable, acts busy, he will not pay much attention etc.
Sarah, if you ask me, i haven't been able to find a man who was as affectionate as my dad was to me. Because i remember i lost him at 11, and i have a distant memory you can say, where i was all the times in his arms. Its good if someone who is your spouse as good as your parents, but i really don't have an expectation deep within.
Although i seek affection in a similar manner, while keeping in my mind that he is not my dad!. But yes we are build over the period of time, there are few things which keeps me deprived. It was a total fluke I met her at all. I was in a bar having a beer with a buddy and he left to go hit on the bartender at another place at 3pm in the afternoon. This hot girl came and sat down alone when I was finishing my beer and ready to leave.
I was on vacation and she wasnt working. At first I was just thinking of it as a hot piece of action. She had a boyfriend even. But the more we got to know eachother the more we realized that we're like carbon copies of eachother, we have a running joke that we're clones. We can complete eachothers sentences and anticipate eachothers thoughts.
I know. Weird seeing that there's a 12 year age gap. I've never been married, I have no kids, neither has she. I had actually written off ever getting a girlfriend ever again after 17 years of back to back serious relationships, I was just going to date until I met this girl. I was seeing 9 girls and from the moment we met we were inseperable and I dropped the ball on all of them. What has come up so far with the age gap is she is a bit concerned because she wants to be married with kids at 30 - at which time I'd be There's also probably a bit of niggling concern about what her family would think they are quite conservative although she hasn't aired it.
Also what's come up is that I have had so many former serious girlfriends and that while 3 months is a long relationship for her she has only had 2 actual boyfriends thats more like 3 years for me.
When the subject of exes comes up she feels like its a one sided conversation because she doesnt have those kind of stories to tell. On the upside though, she has brought up to me that guys her age often just dont get it. They wont shut up and listen when they need to, they have to prove that they're right, they are always pushing her for the serious relationship that she isnt ready for right now shes had four guys try to marry her and one guy try to get her pregnant against her wishes.
She says she feels more comfortable with me than with any other guy she's met. I dont push on her for even the label we're currently officially just "friends" but the way its going I think it's pretty well inevitable. I think my relationship experiences pay off when I'm with her. I will wake her up gently and bring her coffee and already have breakfast on the make. I will hold her hand when walking down the street and give her small neck kisses and PDA that is appropriate for the situation.
Her young age pays off for me in that she is not yet jaded like many women in their 30s, she hasnt been burned badly by a lot of men yet. She sees things in a much simpler light; we slept in a tent in my backyard and watched the clouds and pointed out what we thought they looked like, I havent done anything like that in years.
She doesnt boss me around or tell me what to do, unless I'm out of line or its in jest.