Very well. 21 year old male dating 26 year old female happiness has changed!
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I was born in and have two older siblings. So far, so normal. Except for the fact that being born in - the same year the Titanic went down - my father was old enough to be my great-grandfather. To further compound the issue, my mother was born in - a difference of 33 years between their births. As a child, I was never overtly aware that other people's parents were of similar ages; my mum and dad were just like anyone else's. The true impact of the age of my father only struck home as a teenager.
For one thing, most people do not want their relationship to be the equivalent of gossip tabloid fodder among their own social circles.
A date I recently went on showed the woman to be intelligent, sweet, accomplished, and attractive. We both suspected the age difference might be significant, but avoided the topic for as long as possible.
Yet denying reality serves no purpose. She thought I was I am I was hoping she was in her late twenties. She was Five years is one thing.
Even ten years one can start rationalizing. Yet 18 years is a tough one to justify. Having said that, a guy at 41 squiring a woman of 23 is far more controversial than a year-old man dating a year-old woman.
There is an unofficial rule that exists, even though nobody seems to know where it originated.
This leads to some reasonable results. A year-old should date somebody at least A year-old should stick with someone at least For somebody aged 70, the bottom limit of respectability is The problem with this is that unofficial guidelines are exactly that.
So if 40 and 27 are acceptable, one could say that 41 and 26 are close enough. Yet soon after that, the slippery slope becomes 44 and 24, which can lead to Lolita situations and other felonies.
Some may ask another question. If a man is 40, is dating a pair of year-olds equivalent to dating one year-old?
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From a respectability standpoint, no. From a brag and go high-five your friends standpoint, yes. If the man is a billionaire, it comes with the territory.
In fact, the entire point of becoming a billionaire is for men to be unbound by the rules of everyday life that constrain the rest of us. When one is a septuagenarian billionaire, what else is there to do?
Jan 04, It does sound as if you might be a little intimidated by her maturity and life experience? Your question is worded in a leading manner. Leading toward the conclusion that it is innapropriate. My senses are telling me that this is in fact your conc. I am 31 year old women dating a 21 yeard guy!!!! Hey all I am 31 years old, I had been dating a 21 year old for a few months, at first he and I were friends(I had an immediate connection with him) for like 6 months, then I broke up with the 34 year old guy I was with, and he and I started hanging out.
So the only problem I see with age differences, is if one of the people in the relationship is a minor. But you're both adults, so I see nothing wrong with it.
I am 31 year old women dating a 21 yeard guy!!!!
It's only what, 4 years? That's hardly a difference, and wouldn't matter if she's the 25 yr old and you're the 21 year old, or if it was switched.
Jun 03, I think that the mental and emotional maturity gap between 21 and 26 is much, much larger than the gap between 26 and If a 26 year old friend were dating a 21 year old, I'd likely question the friend's maturity level. With the 26/31 age difference, I wouldn't have those questions. The genders are, to me, irrelevant. Dec 31, That is the main reason I would never date someone older than me. I dont want a cougar. I want to BE one. I dont want to become 40 with a 51 year old wife when I can become 40 with a 30 year old wife 21 yaers younger than the older wife. Seriously. My . Jul 18, 21 year old male dating a 25 year old female? Opinions? I just turned 21 at the beginning of June. I'm kinda interested in a female co-worker. Personally I've never dated a girl older then me or even attempted to ask an older girl out because of intimidation. I'm really attracted to girls that are a little older because they come.
So yea, I think it's totally fine. It's good that you're going for a woman who's more mature.
I'm pissed with you man So what do you think this colleague may think of your mindset? Would she think or say as you have? Thought of that?
Would her opinion see you as degrading? Done your homework there man? Why, she may have similar opinions to your own. I do suggest a good book on that subject you know.
Really though, cynicism aside. Do you really need the opinion of others if this feels like it's the right thing for you to do? I probably would not date a 21 year old guy, but I'm sure there are many something women who would.
21 year old male dating 26 year old female
I say go for it. My brother is 18 and he's dating a 27 year old.
You never know, she may like the thought of dating a younger guy. Hey, age ain't nothing but a number.
My great grandparents were about 6 months apart not much, but still and my great grandmother was older then him. It really doesn't matter. It would be weird if a 46 year old girl was dating a 19 year old boy, or vice versa.
I've dated guys 4yrs younger than me.
Aug 15, jmonteros: 'My year-old father doted on his year-old bride' After my mother's death, my year-old father married a young girl of They had three boys together. Dec 31, A year-old should date somebody at least A year-old should stick with someone at least For somebody aged 70, the bottom limit of respectability is Author: Eric Golub. I am a 19 year old male talking to a 32 year old female. I am a 20 year old girl, and I am dating a 26 year old guy. 4 Year Relationship ended to date another guy.