Accept. 20 year old female dating a 16 year old male thank for the
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I'd like to ask you about how you think of our age gap, and any tips to maintain this relationship due to the certain barriers which are obviously present. Ignore the rude people here. The more rude and self-assured they are of themselves, the more ignorant they seem to be, the entire world does not have a rigid age of consent law set at And not even the entire US does. And besides, you said you're not having sex. Personally I think 16 and 20 is okay. When I was 20, I thought of dating a 16 year old as a normal thing.
So we've been dating for about 8 months now. He is respectful to me and doesn't force me to do anything I don't want to do. Also he isn't living his own life yet into the real world because he still lives with his parents.
And also my grandparents which are my legal guardians were aware of his age.
And became aware of us having sex. We use protection so I don't get pregnant. But we got caught by law and I don't see why they are making a big deal seeing how I'm almost 17 now. Once I'm 17 they can't do much.
Jun 25, Oh, YOU will be FINE, because you are a FEMALE. If it was a 20 year old MALE dating a 16 year old GIRL, he would be cooling his hot little heels in the jailhouse. Its called the DOUBLE STANDARD where you girls. get away with so much sh*t that guys don't and it. SUCKS! Oct 02, Personally I think 16 and 20 is okay. When I was 20, I thought of dating a 16 year old as a normal thing. Anyone who equates it to molesting a child is the same kind of person who thinks that the weather on the first day of spring magically becomes warmer . Jun 21, Whats wrong with a 20 year old dating a 16 year old? Ok so i just turned sixteen on Friday. I have been this this boy for a while & he just turned My parents have NO clue about it. we have been together for months but i wasnt supposed to date till i was 16 but i dated before then.
Because in NY 17 is legal age of consent. If ur older than 13 but younger than 16 can consent to a person who is no more than 4 years apart.
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And it says it right in the law. I'm 46 and started dating my Husband when I was 16 he was Everyone loved him and never noticed the age difference. Including my Mother.
Dec 31, A year-old should date somebody at least A year-old should stick with someone at least For somebody aged 70, the bottom limit of respectability is Stay away. Having said all of that No, it's not against the law for a 20 year old to "DATE" a 16 year old. The definition of 'date' means to go out together to a movie or to dinner or dance. It does not mean having sex regular or oral. Aug 15, jmonteros: 'My year-old father doted on his year-old bride' After my mother's death, my year-old father married a young girl of They had three boys together.
I don't see that 4 years is a problem,unless he is taking advantage of you. At 16,my boyfriend hubby now was not forcing sex or alcohol on me. We always had a great time if we were alone or with friends.
20 year old female dating a 16 year old male
It was just us being together happily and everything else just fell into place. The guy your dating, is he a good guy, do others like him? How did your parents feel about him before you dated him? It might not be the age difference people are noticing,perhaps they think this is just all wrong, because he is wrong for you.
Try going places with friends and family as just friends and see how every responds to him on that level. To answer your question, I do not think it's weird to hear a 20 year old dating a 16 year old. Just take things slow, there is no need to rush through life, you'll regret that later! There's nothing wrong with it I am in the same situation as you but I am 15 he's 21 and before everyone freaks I'll be 16 soon.
We have known each other for about 10 months he's from England and I am Scottish,So we haven't actually met but that will come in time. But both of us aren't different we're alike. I forget about his age and maybe that's a bad thing.
But he's not forcing me to do or say anything. I do what I want tbh so no he's not a "Peodo",He fell in Love with me and it's be a rough journey but we are getting there together.
If you want an older Man then grab your chance let the world deal with their opions only yours matter. They call you jail bait because your "boyfriend" will go to jail if you guys have sex and are caught.
Im not a guy but it is weird Whats wrong with him?
In Florida, you can have sex with a 16 year old as long as she really is 16 and you are under 24 years old. If she's 15 and lying about being 16, you are in trouble. If you are just dating without sex or sexual contact or conduct, then there wouldn't be a problem no matter your ages. I am a 38 year old female who is dating a 19 year old guy. I constantly analyze myself and worry that I am going to lose him. We are very happy and natural together when I let it flow. We talk about a serious future together as we have very compatible. May 18, I had a relationship with a man that started when I was 16 (he was 23). I'm not sure exactly what to call it now looking back in retrospect as he was in a relationship with another woman and simply having sex with me. I knew him from when I was
You say your mature for your age but it doesnt sound like either of you are. At what point does the age difference become scandalous? Throw out the obvious examples as outliers. The late Anthony Quinn was 81 when he impregnated a year-old.
The late Tony Randall was 75 when he married his year-old wife. They had children. Playboy founder Hugh Heffner has several girlfriends, most of them half a century his junior.
Age is what it is. For one thing, most people do not want their relationship to be the equivalent of gossip tabloid fodder among their own social circles. A date I recently went on showed the woman to be intelligent, sweet, accomplished, and attractive.
CHIT CHAT: I'm 21 dating a 17 year old
We both suspected the age difference might be significant, but avoided the topic for as long as possible. Yet denying reality serves no purpose. She thought I was I am I was hoping she was in her late twenties.
She was Five years is one thing. Even ten years one can start rationalizing. Yet 18 years is a tough one to justify. Trust me he is not at your maturity level.
Lots of people are say yes because they "believe in love and it's cute" but on paper or written down it sound horrible. At the least wait a year if he is worth it than you can both do that. Two years is the difference in everything a lot of growing up goes on then and if your both in love than nobody can say anything about it. For now Don't it is so not good and lets just say you have a bad breakup in a year.
You can get in a lot of trouble and it might affect your job and so forth. This is a question that mostly depends on your morals and what you believe is right.
In my oppinion you should not focus so much on the age factor. If you and you guy have a connection then by all means be with him. Do not let age mess up something that could end up being very special. Good luck:. Morally, this is wrong at this time in both of your lives. You're a woman while he is still a boy. Wait until he's fully matured.
It seems strange that you're not dating someone your age.